Full of Ourselves, Part I
March 7th, 2010 Posted in Dr. Howard E. Dial | No Comments »We are all afflicted with it. It comes naturally. It does not discriminate. It has its male form and its female form. It is intoxicating, distorts one’s perspective, keeps one from pleasing God and, if unattended, will lead to personal destruction. It marches down the streets of life for all to see. It is pride. Pride is an unrealistic and unbiblical opinion of oneself. A man may think he is God’s gift to women. A woman becomes obsessed with her appearance, her weight, and her perceived rivals. The strange thing about pride is that it has the audacity to sit in judgment on God. God, according to the proud, is supposed to dance to our tune. He owes us good health, money, and a long life.
Pride comes in many disguises. Not only does it think God owes us something, it is a know-it-all. Pr0ud people love to talk about themselves, talk too much, and talk down to others, try to control others, and are consumed with what others think about them. The proud think more about what others can do for them than what they can do for others. They also argue a lot because they have to always be right. Disrespect, thanklessness, manipulation, impatience, lack of compassion, defensiveness, and a refusal to ask for forgiveness are manifestations of those who are having an affair with themselves.
By now we are probably all reeling and staggered by how much pride is a part of our very being. It is ugly. The Bible hammers pride unrelentingly. It was Satan’s downfall (e.g. the “I wills” of Lucifer’s attempt to become God, Isa. 14:12-17). Pride creates strife (Prov. 13:10), boasts (Prov. 25:14, 27), rebels against authority (Prov. 10:17; 15:12; 1 Tim. 6:3-4), and treats God’s Word with disdain and out-right rejection (Deut. 8:11-20). Nations that have flaunted their pride through arrogance and haughtiness have paid a bitter price; Babylon, Moab, Assyria, Edom, and even Israel were taken to the wood shed for strutting across the stage of human history worshipping their little idols.
Pride in the realm of religion is seen in self-righteousness (Matt. 23:6-11; Lk. 20:46). Prayer, giving, and reveling in human titles of honor are the stuff of the religiously proud. God hates pride and resists the proud (Psa. 101:5; Jas. 4:6). The proud have their own hall of shame in Scripture; Haman (Est. 5-7), Ahithophel (2 Sam. 17:23), Uzziah (2 Chron. 26:16-19), Nebuchadnezzar (Dan. 4:30-34), and Diotrephes (3 Jn.) are a few who preened themselves on their own self-importance.
What do we do? Is it hopeless? Does pride that lurks in the human heart win the day? It does not have to. Satan, the father of the evil of pride, has been defeated at the cross. God the Son humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death. In a cosmic act of supernatural judo (using the strength and weight of an opponent to his disadvantage), Jesus Christ showed that the way up is down. Satan’s pride and his attempt to destroy Jesus became the occasion for his own defeat. By taking the form of a servant, Jesus Christ gave pride a lethal blow (Phil. 2:7-8; Heb.2:15). The cross of Christ is God’s answer to the sinner’s self-worship. The Savior came to serve, not to be served. He came to seek and to save that which was lost (Lk. 19:10). We guilt-laden sinners can come to the one who is gentle and humble in heart and find rest for our souls (Matt. 11:28-30). The grace of God (we don’t get the judgment we deserve) knocks pride in the head. For the Christian pride is seen for what it is. It no longer exercises its tyrannical rule. The overcoming weapons of Christ’s righteousness and the power of the Holy Spirit are in the hands of the children of God. There is still a battle to be fought. But a winnable fight it is.
To be continued…
Dr. Howard E. Dial
Berachah Bible Church