Mary, the Mother of Jesus - Part II
In the last seconds of a football game the quarterback drops back to pass. All his receivers race downfield to the end zone. In a desperation throw the hope is for a touchdown. This is called a “Hail Mary.” Mary, the mother of Jesus, would not be pleased that any prayer would be addressed to her. The very last time Mary is mentioned in the Bible is in Acts 1:14 where she is found with others devoting herself to prayer. This is as it should have been, for Jesus said that the time would come when Mary, as with all believers, can and should call on Jesus in prayer (Jn. 14:13, 14). There was a time when Mary had to learn that her son would no longer submit to her requests. This occurred when Jesus gently but firmly told his mother that the wine problem at Cana of Galilee was something that the will of His Father would resolve (“Woman, what do I have to do with you? My hour has not yet come” Jn. 2:4.). Mary would have to lose her son in order to find Him as Savior. Mary does not receive any prayers. She is fully occupied with worshiping her son, the King of kings and Lord of lords.
Mary’s name does not appear in the hall of faith in Hebrews 11, but she certainly qualifies as one who lived a life of faith. Her initial responses to the news about her pregnancy are an example of how we should all respond to God’s will. It is evident that this teenage Jewish girl knew the Old Testament Scriptures and had a good enough grasp of the plan of God to be able to understand the significance of her “holy offspring.” Did she fully understand Simeon’s reference to the uniqueness of her child who would pierce her soul like a sword (Lk. 2:35)? Probably not, but she pondered the meaning of God’s revelation and learned more about her son, Israel’s Messiah, as he journeyed to the cross and was raised from the dead (Lk. 2:19). Like the rest of Jesus’ disciples, the eyes of her mind would need to be opened to understand the Scriptures and rejoice in God’s Redeemer (Lk. 24:45). Mary conducted her life according to what God had revealed to her and thereby has distinguished herself as a woman of faith. But her faith allowed room for perplexity and growth in understanding. A deepening experience of grasping the significance of what God has said is consistent with trust in God. This forces a question upon us. What is limiting us from seeing the implications of what we hear from God’s Word? Has the birth, life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ brought a spiritual transformation to your life? Are you born again? The Holy Spirit opens the spiritual eyes of those who belong to Christ (1 Cor. 2:14).
There is another misconception about Mary that needs attention. It is taught that Mary lived under a vow of perpetual virginity after the birth of Jesus. There is no Scripture to support this assumption. Actually, the contrary is true. It is said that Joseph “kept her a virgin until she gave birth to a Son” (Matt. 1:25). Joseph and Mary lived a normal life as husband and wife and bore other children (Mk. 6:3). There would have been no spiritual or moral advantages for Mary to have remained a virgin in marriage. Sadly, an unbiblical asceticism crept into the early church as it regarded celibacy as an ethically higher state than sexual relations.
The sword that Simeon predicted would pierce Mary’s soul was felt most deeply when her son, Jesus Christ, was nailed to the cross. Mary suffered pain so that Jesus might bear the pain of God’s judgment on sin (Lk. 2:35; 23:48, 49; Jn. 19:26, 27). Morning sickness, labor pains, a life time of a misunderstood pregnancy, and a rejected ministry all culminated at the crucifixion. As Mary stood in the shadow of the cross, Jesus, the Man of Sorrows, felt compassion for her. The care of Mary was delegated to the disciple whom Jesus loved. This disciple, probably John, would take Jesus’ place and assume the duties of a son. As we think back over Mary’s life up to the hour of her son’s death her own cross comes to mind. Mary’s sorrow became her cross. To follow Jesus means that the disciple must take up his cross and follow Him. In Mary’s case she saw her own son, the Son of God, rejected and crucified. She stumbled and encountered difficulties by virtue of Jesus’ mission on earth (Lk. 8:21; 11:27-28; 12:51-53). Her son’s suffering and rejection weighed heavily upon her heart. But is this not the way of all who, by doing the will of God, are Jesus’ mother and brothers (Lk. 8:21). Our identification with Christ is a call to suffering for Christ. There is no easy way to live the Christian life. As Christ’s people we, like Mary, fight the world’s hostility to the gospel message. Yes, Mary was blessed for bearing Israel’s Messiah, but the greater blessing is for all those who obey God’s Word (Lk. 11:28).
What was Mary’s life like beyond the crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus? Mary reappears with the eleven disciples of Jesus as they waited in prayer for the promised gift of the Holy Spirit (Acts 1:14). She took her place among those who became “charter members” of the body of Christ. The one who had given birth to Jesus’ physical body became a part of His spiritual body, the church. Some insult Mary by calling her the “mother of the church.” Christ alone is the “head of the body, the church, the first-born from the dead; so that He Himself might come to have first place in everything” (Col. 1:18). A further joy to Mary was the delight of seeing her children come to faith in Christ (1 Cor. 15:7; Acts 1:14). Mary’s need for the power of the Holy Spirit mirrors each Christian’s need for that same power if there is to be bold witness for Christ. We can also draw encouragement from the eventual conversion of Jesus’ half brothers. Do you have family members who resist the hope-filled gospel of Jesus Christ? They may yet believe.
Mary is “blessed among women” because of the sovereign choice of God, her belief in the word of God and her firsborn, “a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.” However, Mary’s maternal relationship to Jesus is surpassed by those who put their trust in Jesus (Lk. 8:18-21; 11:27-28). Her physical relation to Jesus did not give her any advantage over those who are related to Him through redemption. Spiritual ties are closer than blood ties. Mary takes her place with other blood-bought, born again children of God. Would you like to be counted as a relative of Jesus Christ? Jesus said, “My mother and My brothers are these who hear the word of God and do it.” Hearers and doers of the Word of God are Jesus’ family. If you have heard the gospel and believed in Christ, then you are in His family. Mary, the mother of Jesus, is your sister in Christ whom we will all join in singing, “Worthy is the Lamb that was slain to receive power and riches and wisdom and might and honor and glory and blessing.”
Dr. Howard E. Dial
Berachah Bible Church


